Losing it for Loren

By Kimberley Hadfield

Leash, Kimbo and Kati are shaving their heads!

We’re shaving our heads for Loren — and for every Kiwi affected by breast cancer. 

Loren has just begun her chemotherapy journey and will soon lose her hair. If you know Loren, you know she has the best (and most!) hair of all of us — so we’ve decided to stand with her in the most visible way we can: we’re shaving our heads too. 💗 Date to be confirmed.

 This isn’t just about hair. It’s about hope, solidarity, and making a difference.

 Every year, 3,500 New Zealanders are diagnosed with breast cancer, and sadly, more than 650 will lose their lives. By fundraising for Breast Cancer Foundation NZ, we’re helping to:

1. Fund ground-breaking research led by top Kiwi scientists

2. Provide free support services for patients and their families

3. Promote education and awareness around breast health and early detection

It’s a small gesture for a cause that touches so many lives. Help us turn this moment into momentum — and make zero deaths from breast cancer a reality.

 👉 Donate today and share the love.

My Updates

We did it!

Sunday 7th Sep
And then there was none... Hair that is! Today, we lost it with Loren. There was laughter and tears & hugs, and lots of head rubs. We love and support you my friend. Bummer we couldn't be together, but always in spirit. 
We are all so grateful for every cent that has been donated so far. It all goes directly to the Breast Cancer Foundation so will already be helping people.  Please share what you can, get us to $5,000 and you'll see my hair pink!

From Leash

Wednesday 27th Aug
Breast cancer has torn through my friends and family, and continues to do so. I can't remember a time when I didn't have a loved one fighting this damn fight. My Mum and her two sisters fought their battles within a few years of each other. For me, it's a constant cloud over my coiffed head. I think of it every soapy shower, at my annual Mamm-Jam in October, with every glance at Mum's proud flat chest. 

Please donate to the cause via this vain girl who loves her hair. For our Loren, for my Mum, for my ones still fighting, and yours. I wanna kick its' ass. Lx

From Loren

Wednesday 27th Aug
💗 My Journey – Raising for Breast Cancer NZ 💗

Unfortunately, like a lot of women, my breasts have let me down. So here I am, on a journey of chemo, with possible surgery and radiation still to come. The goal - to live a little longer, soak up more time with my whānau and friends, and to be around for as many laughs, hugs, and cheeky moments as I can.

This road is tough, and it’s not one I chose, but I’m walking it with all the grit, aroha, and sass I’ve got. Along the way, I want to help others who may be facing the same fight. That’s why I’m raising funds for Breast Cancer NZ, so more wāhine and whānau get the support, research, and care they deserve.

So please, if you can, donate. Do it for the cause, do it for the women you love, or even just to see me keep my sense of humour while wrangling chemo naps and snack experiments. Every single donation, big or small, makes a real difference, not just for me, but for countless others walking this path.

With aroha, determination, and a little laughter to keep me going,
Loren (Bub) ❤️

From Kati

Wednesday 27th Aug
💗 Shave for Love – Supporting Loren & Breast Cancer NZ 💗

Most of you know my wife Loren is in the fight of her life right now with breast cancer. To stand beside her in more than just words, me and a bunch of close mates are shaving our heads when she does.

Why? Because hair grows back — but time, aroha, and support are the things that really matter. Every dollar raised will go directly to Breast Cancer NZ, helping other whānau walking this road right now and those yet to.

If you know me, you know how much I love Loren — and if you don’t know me, well… you can still donate just to see my shiny head (which is bound to give everyone a laugh).

So whether it’s for love, for Loren, or for the comedy of me rocking the bald look, please koha if you can. Every bit helps, and every bit means the world. Huge aroha, Kataraina (Kati/KT)

From Kimbo

Wednesday 27th Aug

I’m about to do something bold — and bald — for Loren.

really love my hair. Like, a lot. But I love Loren more. 💕
So I’m shaving it all off to show her how much she means to me, to stand by her through chemo, and to raise money for an incredible cause while I’m at it.

And here’s the twist:
If we hit our fundraising goal, I’ll dye my hair bright pink too.
(Trust me, that’s a much bigger deal than just going bald!)

 

Thank you to my Sponsors

$22.58

Louise Phillips

💖💖

$29.90

Deanne Littlejohn

Healing and light ❤️

$32.43

Abbey Oliver

$29.90

Kathryn Doy

$53

Jason Lao

$27.81

Heather Comer

Cant wait for the pink!

$29.90

Wuwei Kang

$29.25

Kartika Pa

$35.23

Alka

All the best for your journey back to health Loren. You've got this!

$30

Denis Kosorukov

$57.30

Ciara Brydon

$20

Rob And Emma

Great cause Leash and Kimberly

$106.12

Barnard Jodi & Edith

We are FAMILY, no body FIGHTS alone Hugs with Love Jodi & Edith The Barnard sisters xxxx❤️

$106.12

Aimz, Ev & Kids Wevers-borland

Wishing you all the strength for the fight ahead. You've got some wonderful people we love dearly, who love you, backing you all the way. Kia kaha x

$43.60

Cori Wemyss

$106.12

Anonymous

🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

$136.10

Pauline Thompson

💯🤍❤️

$106.12

Emma Rogan

Love yous all. F*ck Cancer. 🖤🌺

$106.12

Sonya Kaihe

Love you long time Loren, you got this hon xxx sending you all our heart and soul hon xxx From all of us xxx

$154.65

Vernon, Christy And Demi

Sending love and support from the UK xxx

$106.12

Chrissie Smith

$29.90

Nicola Day

$27.81

Trudy King

Faith, Hope ,Strength ,LOVE 🩷

$136.10

Sonia Dickson

$211

Kataraina & Loren

I love you so much my wife. Keep fighting!

$57.30

Jenneane Hardie-neil

$50.01

Vicky H

Sending you all my strength and sass to add to your fight Loren. A fucken shitty hand to be dealt, I'm so sorry this is happening to you x

$54.12

Kim Weston

Kati, sending love to you both xxx

$57.30

Damian Chase

$43.60

Anna Mcconnell

$22.58

Zelda

You've got this Loren!

$29.90

Anonymous

$29.90

Richell

Kia kaha=)

$106.12

Kaysha Thompson

Yourve got this aunty Loren! We are always thinking of you from afar! We love you 🤍

$29.90

Morgan Family

Can’t wait to see your beautiful bald head Leash! Sending love for Loren in her battles ahead x

$29.90

Kirstie Birkett

$30

Bertha Porter

Nui te aroha kia koe e Loren, kia kaha kia maia kia manawanui

$57.30

Val Joyce

much love xxx

$29.90

Luca Harnish

You’ll all look beautiful 💗 keep on smiling Loren you got this 💪🏼

$29.90

Hana

Love you, Loren ❤️ stay strong, girly x

$29.90

Lisa Ferguson

🩷🩷🩷

$29.90

Mel

$57.30

Karen Walker

Fight little one You can do it

$136.10

Annette Baker

Great that you are doing this! Best wishes to Loren.

$78.26

Nola Laver

An additional amount for Loren 🙏

$29.90

Nola Laver

Praying for all who afflicted .May my small amount help in some way🙏♥️

$57.30

Roz W

$54.12

Raechal

Thinking of you Loren💕💕 You are a fighter and you are stronger than you know..

$54.12

Marika Fitt

Sending love and support from the south xxx

$100

Ericka Lashbrook (rick O'shea)

Thinking of you as you fight this horrendous disease. Give it all you got xxx

$29.90

Marie-anne

🫂🫂🫂

$29.90

Rudy Roebeck

💕💕💕

$63.23

Tracy Hardie

Love ya Loren xx Thinking of you and sending you aroha Xx

$54.12

Kate Te Whata

Kia Kaha Loren. Sending lots of luv to you xx

$57.30

Kay

Good luck!!! xx

$106.12

Kara

Ka nui te aroha ki a koe e kō tūkuru. He haerenga ngākau nui tēnei, tō kaha, tō maia hoki!. LOVESSSSS TO YOU ALL XXXXXXXXXXXXX

$211

Melody Urlich

I so tautoko this kaupapa. I shaved my head just over a year ago for my friend and employee who was also going through chemo for breast cancer. I am vain and have an ugly head. But I wore my shaved head proudly and wished I could have done more. I have a lot of hats if you need to borrow them. Xxx

$22.58

Kathryn Lee

Wishing you well on your journey. Cancer sux

$54.12

Dolly Margaret Tooke-tuporo

A koha for a group of amazing wāhine <3

$29.90

Lucy Drummond

$56.02

Kataraina Witika

Kia kaha Loren!! Arohanui kia koe cuz Kati x

$54.12

Ange

Good on you Kimbo 🩷

$57.30

Anonymous

$22.58

Ab

This cause is especially close to my heart, as a dear friend back home is also on the same journey. Every donation helps not only raise funds but also sends strength, love, and hope to those who need it most. Wishing your friend all the best

$20

Natalia G

Thinking of you and your friend at this time! 💗